MIDDLE
YEARS
The years between early childhood and adolescence can seem quiet. In Grades 1 to 6, there are fewer dramatic milestones, and it may feel like a steady season before more demanding stages begin. Yet these years are deeply formative.
At COJ, we recognize that what takes root during this time shapes how children will learn, relate, and take responsibility in the years ahead. The middle years are not something to “get through.” They are part of the foundation.
These years are especially about habit formation. Children develop patterns in how they approach challenges, respond to mistakes, and see themselves as learners. These habits often form quietly but last a long time.
Some children begin to associate learning with confidence and meaning. Others may begin to feel pressure or fear of failure. A healthy environment helps shape positive beliefs about effort, growth, and capability. COJ seeks to provide this and avoid two common pitfalls: overemphasizing performance or under-challenging children. Instead, we value growth over comparison and effort over perfection, balancing support with meaningful challenge.
As children grow, they are ready for deeper thinking and greater responsibility, but they still need guidance. Progressive education in the elementary years is structured, thoughtful, and intentional.
At COJ, learning goes beyond memorization. Students are guided to understand ideas, ask questions, explain their thinking, and reflect on their work. Independence develops gradually, with steady support.
Clear expectations and consistent routines remain essential. Structure provides security and teaches self-discipline. In smaller learning environments, teachers can mentor attentively, offering both encouragement and appropriate challenge.
The middle years are also a time when values take deeper root. Children grow in awareness of fairness, honesty, responsibility, and empathy. Formation happens daily through relationships, conversations, and example.
Though not dramatic, the elementary years quietly prepare children for adolescence and beyond. The confidence, character, and habits formed in these years often stay with them for life. An environment like COJ that understands this quiet formation is one of the most meaningful gifts parents can give.